Thanks :) Xbreed, this I know. I just really don't want to feel out of my element if you know what I mean. I don't know what PTSD groups do, but I can only image people talk about their flashbacks and trauma and hearing stories about war is something I'd rather avoid. (doesn't mean I do not respect our soldiers and vets, I just want to feel comfortable and like I belong and can relate to people if I enter a setting like that) :)