Other Post Cult Ptsd

[Amanda_j]

I have no idea what to do or what is going on. He ended our 5 year relationship in a text message and I haven't heard from him since. So all I can do is move on as best I can.

 

[Ronin]

Hey @Amanda_j how are you dealing with the aftermath? Are you alright, I mean, coping?

 

[Amanda_j]

Hey @Cashew, I'm trying very hard to cope, but not doing a great job of it.

 

[Amanda_j]

I feel betrayed to be honest, and I feel guilty because I feel that way. He expected me to understand his limits, and his needs, without ever explaining them to me.

 

[Ronin]

@Amanda_j, breakups are never a fault of one party, and sometimes they're not anyone's fault at the time, you simply weren't compatible at this point in time. It's not like you can read minds, and a relationship requires effort on all sides, you can't be doing everything and receive not a slightest clue what his side on anything is.

From my reading of your posts you've been trying your hardest to gather information wherever possible; it's not your fault the person who needed to be your guide to him the most, himself, wasn't offering any.

 

[Red Feather]

Here is another great link:

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[Amanda_j]

@Nadia thank you