If this T was your only option then I agree with @Hashi that you could make her work for you by writing really clear instructions (communications) for what you need. But, from what I understand you have other options and my experience taught me that starting again was really valuable.
For me, with my first T, once I had disclosed there was no way to take it back and no way for either of us to continue pretending as if I hadn't disclosed. Disclosing too soon in the therapeutic relation was a mistake (at least for me).
Just my own personally biased view.
For me, with my first T, once I had disclosed there was no way to take it back and no way for either of us to continue pretending as if I hadn't disclosed. Disclosing too soon in the therapeutic relation was a mistake (at least for me).
Just my own personally biased view.