amethist
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Hi Kmallrd
If you have only just started seeing this guy and he is already saying no tot he relationship, maybe it would be best if you listened to what he is saying at the very beginning.
Some sufferers cannot do the relationship thing, no matter how hard they try, and if this is the case with this guy, maybe he is being as honest as he can with you from the off.
Being a supporter is not an easy life, and not one to get into lightly. There can be so much heart ache and pain on both sides, some just cannot make it.
Before you decide which way to go, read as much as you can about how others have struggled to hang on, only having to let go in the end.
Let him be for a few days, maybe a week and see if he contacts you. If he does then maybe, just maybe you have a chance. you could send him a message after a week and see what comes back, if it's nothing you have your answer.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but honesty is the only way to go here.
Take care of yourself and live you life as you would have before you met him.
If you have only just started seeing this guy and he is already saying no tot he relationship, maybe it would be best if you listened to what he is saying at the very beginning.
Some sufferers cannot do the relationship thing, no matter how hard they try, and if this is the case with this guy, maybe he is being as honest as he can with you from the off.
Being a supporter is not an easy life, and not one to get into lightly. There can be so much heart ache and pain on both sides, some just cannot make it.
Before you decide which way to go, read as much as you can about how others have struggled to hang on, only having to let go in the end.
Let him be for a few days, maybe a week and see if he contacts you. If he does then maybe, just maybe you have a chance. you could send him a message after a week and see what comes back, if it's nothing you have your answer.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but honesty is the only way to go here.
Take care of yourself and live you life as you would have before you met him.