I know this post is a little old but, I am in a very similar situiation, I feel your pain, and i am truly sorry for what your going thru, its nice to know that i am not alone! i have been going to therapy and cut off all contact with my naricsstic mother and her family, i have been getting better but still wokring on it. I also plan on attending church! Email me if you need an ear to listen!! :) Good Luck and take care hun!