WhiteHatGirl
Learning
I bet most people who are in this forum would identify.
The joke is that there are elephants in the middle of the room people cannot talk about.
Well my family is like that. I can only talk about the weather with certain people.
I also think I react badly to my in law who has anxiety issues that come off as super domineering. They have power over when I stay in their house because I have no where else to go.
But they likely keep telling their spouse to get rid of me as fast as they can. So of course I'm aware of the two faced game of, "I like my wife's family, I hate my wife's family."
TRUST ME I WOULD LIVE anywhere else that was safe and decent if I could.
I just get to live with mounting pressure to leave from my relative because they are being pushed more and more to get completely rid of me.....then this pressure can turn into passive aggressive games, and then sly insults, then direct insults. (Did I say I have that family that simply doesn't believe I have any kind of health conditions?)
And I just applied for the second time for SSDI and SSI. The pressurer person makes everyone PRETEND they have great health, even I they have a knock down overwhelming flue/cold, need surgery etc...
This denial of illness is really a soul crusher in some instances with people who cannot control anxiety that well at times with triggers all around, etc...
The joke is that there are elephants in the middle of the room people cannot talk about.
Well my family is like that. I can only talk about the weather with certain people.
I also think I react badly to my in law who has anxiety issues that come off as super domineering. They have power over when I stay in their house because I have no where else to go.
But they likely keep telling their spouse to get rid of me as fast as they can. So of course I'm aware of the two faced game of, "I like my wife's family, I hate my wife's family."
TRUST ME I WOULD LIVE anywhere else that was safe and decent if I could.
I just get to live with mounting pressure to leave from my relative because they are being pushed more and more to get completely rid of me.....then this pressure can turn into passive aggressive games, and then sly insults, then direct insults. (Did I say I have that family that simply doesn't believe I have any kind of health conditions?)
And I just applied for the second time for SSDI and SSI. The pressurer person makes everyone PRETEND they have great health, even I they have a knock down overwhelming flue/cold, need surgery etc...
This denial of illness is really a soul crusher in some instances with people who cannot control anxiety that well at times with triggers all around, etc...