10 years ago I got hired for a big company, we traveled alot. One after I was invited to a bar-q by a group of co-workers at hotel... By this time I felt very comfortable with them since we all worked so hard and treated each other like a family. I got invited to the hotel bar-q at one of the supervisors rooms... Bar-q was on balcony.
Make a long story short we waited for other and no one ever came... So it was getting late and I might of drank maybe 3 beers... Or maybe just one, all I remember that every was happening so far.
I remember saying "OK" I got to go now it's getting late. I remember walking towards the door and feeling very out of it and my vision was blurry as I was walking towards the door... The last think I remember passing out as I was walking towards the door. I wake up the next day with no clothes on and I see one of the guys that invited me sitting at the corner of the bed. I quickly got up and I don't remember saying anything. I was so confused and shocked at the same time.
I put my clothes on and ran down stairs to get my room key to get ready for work, of course the clerk was looking at me all weird. Got ready and headed to work I arrived at our work station late, I see one of my supervisors laughing and then high fives another guy and he says "She's in" as if I was now part of the team. Of course I was still feeling a very drowsy and out of it. Almost as if I was under some type of heavy hospital drug. Kinda spaced out, Being still confused and feeling just speech less I continue to work as if nothing was wrong with me and acting the same as before.
As days came I started hearing rumors about me, I felt of course horrible because I had maybe too much to drink and I should have never put myself in that situation. I still had to work with these men and travel, I would still hang out in lobby area acting normal as if nothing ever happened that night. We sat there and one of the other supervisors says "I wanted that it first" of course I had to pretend I didn't hear him and continue. I felt like if I stayed close to them things would stop.
By this time I was very desperate, lost and confused and no one was to be blamed but me and besides no one would of ever believe me because I was just one female it was my word against 3 of them and 2 being supervisors.
I then text the guy I woke up wit and asked him if he would take me to the store. He did. We came back and I invited him in my room to hang out and my plan was to talk to him and go from there. To try to talk to him and maybe find out more about what happened that night.
He received a call and said he had to go. That was the very last day we spoke to each other again.
Months went by and they continued to spread rumors. I finally got tierd and wanted the rumors to stop. I ended up calling Headquarters almost two years later. I just couldn't take the harrasment any longer. I got on the phone and startung talking to a branch chief. As I was talking to her I was crying and letting her know these men were harassing me. As I was talking to her she laughed at me. I paused and fell like I was in this alone. She quickly asked me if I wanted to sue. She made me feel so uncomfortable that I didn't finish telling her my story but, before we hung up she told me she would talk to them.
Oh did things get even worser for me... They got so much people against me. They would bully/harass me, basically retaliating against me for the next 9 years till I reported this again in 2017 because how worse can things get after all I've been through. It stopped for a while. . It came back again this year and now finally the EECO is involved. I never in my life wanted this to end this way.
I gave them so many chances to stop harassing me and bullying me. I went through such dark times in my life just blaming myself for that night to the points where I tried to commit suicide a couple times.
I distance myself from my family and friends, I didn't want to be around anyone only my 2 kids. I cried so many nights just blaming myself never understanding why these men hated me so much to not allow me to move forward in life by constantly bullying me, reminding me of that night and harrasing me left in right and kept spreading rumors.
I am a women who made a mistake by trusting people. I made a mistake the night I went to the bar-q, I took responsibility for my actions that I should have never gone to this bar-q and I have learned from this. But why was I torsured and reminded for so long!?!?! Is it the guilt they felt inside that they had to do things to not feel so guilty and make the world see me as trash!?!? They worked so hard on making so many people see me as a worthless women.
Tomorrow I meet with the EECO for a second interview, I'm stressed and out of trust. I just hope and pray they help me... So many more things that were done to me as if no one has ever in this world made one mistake! So many nights of no sleep, so many missed holidays and birthdays because I fell into a dark world of depression and even with all this said and done I will probably still not be believed.
Make a long story short we waited for other and no one ever came... So it was getting late and I might of drank maybe 3 beers... Or maybe just one, all I remember that every was happening so far.
I remember saying "OK" I got to go now it's getting late. I remember walking towards the door and feeling very out of it and my vision was blurry as I was walking towards the door... The last think I remember passing out as I was walking towards the door. I wake up the next day with no clothes on and I see one of the guys that invited me sitting at the corner of the bed. I quickly got up and I don't remember saying anything. I was so confused and shocked at the same time.
I put my clothes on and ran down stairs to get my room key to get ready for work, of course the clerk was looking at me all weird. Got ready and headed to work I arrived at our work station late, I see one of my supervisors laughing and then high fives another guy and he says "She's in" as if I was now part of the team. Of course I was still feeling a very drowsy and out of it. Almost as if I was under some type of heavy hospital drug. Kinda spaced out, Being still confused and feeling just speech less I continue to work as if nothing was wrong with me and acting the same as before.
As days came I started hearing rumors about me, I felt of course horrible because I had maybe too much to drink and I should have never put myself in that situation. I still had to work with these men and travel, I would still hang out in lobby area acting normal as if nothing ever happened that night. We sat there and one of the other supervisors says "I wanted that it first" of course I had to pretend I didn't hear him and continue. I felt like if I stayed close to them things would stop.
By this time I was very desperate, lost and confused and no one was to be blamed but me and besides no one would of ever believe me because I was just one female it was my word against 3 of them and 2 being supervisors.
I then text the guy I woke up wit and asked him if he would take me to the store. He did. We came back and I invited him in my room to hang out and my plan was to talk to him and go from there. To try to talk to him and maybe find out more about what happened that night.
He received a call and said he had to go. That was the very last day we spoke to each other again.
Months went by and they continued to spread rumors. I finally got tierd and wanted the rumors to stop. I ended up calling Headquarters almost two years later. I just couldn't take the harrasment any longer. I got on the phone and startung talking to a branch chief. As I was talking to her I was crying and letting her know these men were harassing me. As I was talking to her she laughed at me. I paused and fell like I was in this alone. She quickly asked me if I wanted to sue. She made me feel so uncomfortable that I didn't finish telling her my story but, before we hung up she told me she would talk to them.
Oh did things get even worser for me... They got so much people against me. They would bully/harass me, basically retaliating against me for the next 9 years till I reported this again in 2017 because how worse can things get after all I've been through. It stopped for a while. . It came back again this year and now finally the EECO is involved. I never in my life wanted this to end this way.
I gave them so many chances to stop harassing me and bullying me. I went through such dark times in my life just blaming myself for that night to the points where I tried to commit suicide a couple times.
I distance myself from my family and friends, I didn't want to be around anyone only my 2 kids. I cried so many nights just blaming myself never understanding why these men hated me so much to not allow me to move forward in life by constantly bullying me, reminding me of that night and harrasing me left in right and kept spreading rumors.
I am a women who made a mistake by trusting people. I made a mistake the night I went to the bar-q, I took responsibility for my actions that I should have never gone to this bar-q and I have learned from this. But why was I torsured and reminded for so long!?!?! Is it the guilt they felt inside that they had to do things to not feel so guilty and make the world see me as trash!?!? They worked so hard on making so many people see me as a worthless women.
Tomorrow I meet with the EECO for a second interview, I'm stressed and out of trust. I just hope and pray they help me... So many more things that were done to me as if no one has ever in this world made one mistake! So many nights of no sleep, so many missed holidays and birthdays because I fell into a dark world of depression and even with all this said and done I will probably still not be believed.
