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Christian Therapist

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Rosalia

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So I've noticed a trend in therapists, and for some reason I keep ending up with "Christian therapists." They're supposedly certified, but every time I see one they never really help me. I first went to one when I was young and still living with my abusive father, and I remember her being very nice, but generally unhelpful. When looking for new therapists through my insurance I kept scheduling appointments with therapists who turned out to be Christian therapists. The second one was also nice, but generally unhelpful. The third one straight up told me that she couldn't help me because I was an atheist and she didn't know how to treat someone who didn't believe in a higher power, which just sounds like quackery to me. The next therapist I found was a doctor in psychology who ended up diagnosing me with PTSD and help manage the worst of my symptoms. At the end of our time together I realized that I wanted to see someone who specialized in eating disorders, so I did some more research and found someone who, after the first session, revealed that she was yet another Christian therapist. She hasn't really helped me either. At one point I had a bad meltdown and realized that maybe I should ask her about emotional support animals. My landlord doesn't allow pets, so she needed to write me a letter, which she did, but it didn't seem like she ever did this before. It didn't seem like she's ever written an official "therapist's note" before, which seemed kind of odd. She didn't even write the letter in letterhead. So when I gave it to my landlord, he asked for the letter to be notarized and on proper letterhead. When I asked her for it, she said she'd have to think about it, to see if that was a thing she could do, which just blows my mind. If she didn't think it was ok to write this letter and have it notarized, why would she write it in the first place?? Then she canceled our last appointment because of a family emergency, but she hasn't gotten back to me. I feel like I've been duped. I've already pissed off my landlord with this letter. I just feel like I've been ripped off.
Has anyone had any experience with these "Christian therapists?" I've got nothing against religion. I certainly don't care if my therapist is a Christian. But it seems like this breed of therapist just don't know what they're doing and are taking people's insurance money without actually helping them.
 
So I've noticed a trend in therapists, and for some reason I keep ending up with "Christian therapists."...

I have :( if you're Christian and they help you, it can be another story because you get your hope and strength from a higher power. I used to be Christian and it worked ok then. Still quackery though. It's a lot of going in circles. Once, they did this spiritual walk through called a "sozo" they walked me through bunch of repressed memories .. Like WAY too many.. Then told me to give it to Jesus. I was in such mental anguish for months after. My heart just HURT. I would just avoid Christian therapists as much as you can. Say it interferes with your "religion" if you have to. Sorry you've been stuck with a bunch :/
 
I have :( if you're Christian and they help you, it can be another story because you get your hope and s...

Wow, I'm so glad I'm not the only one who's had issues with this. By the way, she just got back to me and we have another appointment, but she told me that she can't prescribe me an emotional support animal because she's have to "put me on disability" and she doesn't do that. First off, she already wrote me the letter. Secondly, I've been doing a lot of research on this and nowhere have I found that I need to be "put on disability." Technically, I am disabled. I was diagnosed before I met her, and I don't think if I had walked in there without a diagnosis she would have figured out what was wrong with me. I'm devastated. I really wanted this. An ESA would have helped me out a lot. And now I have to go back to my landlord, whom I've already talked to about this, and tell him, "Oops, just kidding!" I feel like he thinks I was trying to trick him. I'm just so upset right now.
 
Can you get something from your medical Dr.? I have Never had had a problem with a therapist writing a note for a therapy animal. It seems odd.

I haven't personally issue do to a therapist being Christian, but I have had a few issues with therapists that were very much into new age mysticism. The one I really clashed with kept pushing me into spirituality at a time I was just breaking away from a very cult like church and wanted nothing to do with religion or spirituality at all. I was in a place where I needed to step away from all of that and figure out what I believed for myself. Her pushing kind of sent me into a rebellious phase against all spirituality.
 
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I have never encountered this personally, my inner Catholic finds it interesting, though I can absolutely see why you would find it useless.

And knowing my inner Catholic, I would probably find myself being dropped by the therapist after the first 10 minutes. I have an "interesting" rapport with the almighty.

Is there a way you could tell your insurance company to put your beliefs or lack thereof into your file?

I would imagine there must be a way, as I can't imagine that it would go over terribly well if the insurer were to repeatedly send a Muslim, Hindu, Jehovah's witness, Jewish client to a Christian therapist.

Also I absolutely agree with your trepidation about the last one. Having a document notarized, really isn't something that should be an issue. If they are in the proper authority to do such things. *ding, red flag.
 
She does not sound legit. I'm really sketched out by that. Maybe don't go to your landlord yet. Is th...

That's the thing, I already talked to him, because she gave me the letter! Only when he asked for a new letter notarized and on letterhead did she backtrack and say she won't do it. I feel so dumb for trusting another Christian therapist. I should have gone with my gut and turned her down.

My last therapist, the one who diagnosed me wouldn't prescribe me one because he didn't believe in emotional support animals. I think he just didn't like animals. I had a bit of a meltdown over this, to be honest. I'm about ready to give up. And I'm certainly dumping my therapist because this just feels unprofessional and wrong.
 
Can you get something from your medical Dr.? I have Never had had a problem with a therapist writing a...
She said that she couldn't write me the the letter because she wouldn't have to "put my on disability" and "she doesn't do that." Does that sound accurate? I mean, I don't mean to pry, but are you on disability? That just seems inaccurate, you know?
 
Unless a therapist is practicing openly as a Christian therapist or finds that rapport would be increased by sharing a common religion there should no place for it. I am Christian but have had some religious trauma in the past so I struggle with it sometimes. My T knows and the closest thing she's said about her own religion is when I was considering going to a unitarian church and she said sometimes she does and sometimes she goes to her own church. She didn't even say what religion her own church is although I might guess catholic I don't know why..
 
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