Bio dad and I are talking again

Bio dad and I are talking again and this started on Friday. He put me through a lot as a kid forcing me to be someone I wasn't calling me offensive words which he has regretted. It was with the abuse he put my mom through too. He did drink a lot at the time and is now 31 years sober, did get help for his drinking problem. My mom was close to calling the cops on him realizing he changed his life around in the right direction when he came around. He came in and apologized to her for the bad things he did to her. Told him his oldest son is now a daughter. My wife saw I was nervous and encouraged to face my fears. I did when I got to her house and he was actually nice calling me Alex instead my male name. Told him I crossdress fulltime living a much happier life as my true self. Looked at me and said he wanted to put the past behind and make things right. Mom and I saw he was right where he got that idea. Said he remembered watching the tv show My Name is Earl, did bad things writing it all down and making up for the mistakes he did. So far I am 100% proud of him, we met up yesterday for lunch. Realized what he did to me was bad and it grew up on him. Also it was the regrets he had and knows it will take time for me to forgive him. Good thing is he sees I live a much happier life. Mom, she is glad he changed his life around. I asked him what also made him change. Said it was one Johnny Cash song that made him change his life around

I had him listen to this song with the progress going well so far which will be one step at a time which he agrees

This is a pretty big deal - how do you feel about it? Will it be good for you that he’s back in your life?

Sideways said:

This is a pretty big deal - how do you feel about it? Will it be good for you that he’s back in your life?

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I feel great about and see he learned his lesson. He admitted to himself that he had the drinking problem and needed help. First thing he did was dump every open and unopen bottle of liquor he had down the sink throwing the bottles away and got in contact with rehab.So far looking good for us. Said the change was good for him realizing he was going down a destructive path.

Update, Still going great with us and been proving it to me. I see him changed big time in the right direction and getting close to forgive him. Found out mom has forgiven him already.