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I do not, I should have but things became twisted by certain people very quickly. I have learnt a lot from previous therapy and similar, so have a lot to try myself. not sure I am in a place to revisit therapy right now but will in the future. Some of it was very good, and I was in a very good...

Not trying to take anything as mine or anything like that with anyone. Your words, describing your trials and difficulties. So much trouble communicating what I mean at times.

Im short on words but wanted to say something in case no one sees before tomorrow. Maybe you won't send it, maybe you send a different or shortened version. Important thing is that you wrote it. Having the session, starting the journey is the most important part, the rest can come later if...

I am grateful @Grateful , did not want to derail your thread. I feel as if I have no right to be here or anywhere, so much of what I say and do seems misunderstood, taken wrong or misjudged. I cannot say I understand everything fully, but a lot of what you write is so very familiar. I have a...

That made sense to me.... more I want to say, I dont know how. It's made me quite emotional, in a good way. Thank you.

Well my little one that i went through similar with, she was considered the runt of the litter. She had a hole in her heart. She was small but as fierce as a lion. Her heart was bigger than most, if anyone was in pain or having a bad day she would find them and make them let her sit on them to...

So met some people, one in particular in an unlikely place. Thought I had made friends, I was suffering a lot, drugged a lot and forced into dissociative state too much. I made mistakes and didn't understand a lot, so much I didn't understand. Being in a suggestive state, thoughts were twisted...

Welcome, sorry for what brings you here, that sounds difficult and maybe someone with more experience can help more. I have never been in that situation before, although have made plenty of mistakes. Maybe think of it how you would have in the past? What would have worked for you? First...

I am sorry to hear that. You have my deepest condolences. You have happy memories and a little more time with her to treat her special, maybe make a few more. If you feel like it would like to hear about her or can share a story of my own.

Thank you, I love that post! I have said exactly that a number of times recently. Unfortunately a number of events have led to me living closer to some family members than I ever have before, now on my doorstep. Trying to find distance, what you have just said helps a lot thank you. I did go...

I try to just live my life, be compassionate and caring, biases and experiences some have understandably take things the wrong way. I sometimes get beaten down, and trusted people joining in makes it all worse. Sure there are better sources for certain situations, this is what I have to share...

@Ecdysis Talking about genocide and its effects, i was reading about something else and came a across this: "Apparently, it doesn’t take much to get people to commit atrocities against their neighbors, as evidenced by the Milgram Experiment Conducting the Milgram experiment in Poland...

It's not right, it's not you and you are not too sensitive. Sorry not my place to say it feels, if you can take the discourse away from your uncle, do by text or writing instead.

It's... this isn't the place for it and probably get used against me by someone, I'm not ready really, but... this isn't the bad stuff. For years, more than I realised my brother used past trauma to cause me to suffer in a dissociative state repeatedly. He knew the details as I had tried to get...

Thank you, I dont know what to do, say or think.

Thank your for sharing that, it is important and relevant. That is a heavy thing to carry. So many, myself included have no way of understanding what that must be like, being so removed from the events. From what I have read and heard, sharing stories and experiences connected to such things...

Is that not the point? Some of us, that's how we are. Not necessarily something learned or done, simply how we are. Empathy? Some dont appear to have it, others have it to varying degrees. Some overwhelmingly due to life's events. I could say a lot on this, but there is one person you can help...

So realise can't talk about it from my perspective. Many talk about not being able to get traumatised selves to open up and talk. Every part of me has been hurt at some point, none of them want to talk about it for fear of repercussions. Can talk to others and share some things, not the truly...

Damn @beaneeboo dealing with everything you are whilst having a son must be difficult. Well done to you! At the same time is he your comfort, what binds you together when you feel like falling apart? Repetitively and consistently tell yourself and her. Hear/read others pain, share, learn...

That just clicked and made some things clearer. Thank you.

I dont know how to do this. There's so much, i can't find the words. Saying anything to anyone, try to resolve anything, seem to get slapped back down. I can see it, relate to it, in some people's posts, cannot find the words to write it. @Calmdown feel where you're coming from, hope you find...

Well, doesn't take much to ruin the optimism.

Confused and trying to make sense of the world. Don't know where to start or what to say. Recent events put me in a dissociative state. Coming out of it feel weird, trying to make sense of things and find a way forward. Feel optimistic a lot, not really sure why with everything that's happened...

You communicated back. I dont know you, just relate with some things. All good I'll ignore you, you ignore me.

Many have this in some form but tightly constrained or expressed differently. Those that know, that can understand would appreciate metaphors, peoms, actions and dance. No fear of judgment with the right people.