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Hi, welcome! Hope you find the support and info you need here :happy:

Hi and welcome!

You and I have been through absolute hell- yet we've survived! I think that says something about the kind of people we are. FOOK the ASSWIPES that chose to feed their sick, demented appetites to destroy so much good. I'm on a mission to take their power away. I will educate people. I will...

Sometimes it just helps to either sit down, or get on the phone to a counsellor and talk about everything that's wrong with your life... They can offer a bit of encouragement or support that you need to feel a bit better. You don't deserve to live in that frame of mind! Take a step forward and...

My experiences have been very similar!!! It's like most people can sniff out how vulnerable I am and get so much enjoyment from seeing just how much they can manipulate and use me. It is really hard to find people who are genuinely considerate and have integrity when dealing with other people...

That's brilliant!!! It gives me so much hope knowing there are people that are willing to do something out there! We can make a difference!!!

Well done! I haven't ever regretted moving on from my family- even though family means everything to me!

I think there needs to be a shift in the way we educate. I think children need to spend a lot more time focused on understanding responsibility, and how they impact the world. What use is knowledge/facts if they cant be used to do good? It will take time, but I think it can happen!

Its not ok that he's blowing up at you! If you don't find a way to stand up for yourself you'll end up loosing confidence in yourself and him. Have you thought about getting couples counselling? I hope he can get to a place where he takes responsibility for the way he's feeling before he blows...

I think about it a lot! I don't have answers that will make it all better... but I believe with all my heart that it does matter! I believe your and my fight makes a big difference to so many other people out there. When it all gets too much for me I try and focus of the big picture... this...

I remember those days... wondering when I woke up if I would live through the day. Thank god we have moved on from them... DAMN THEM for destroying so much good in our lives!!! I was talking to my therapist today about a sick twisted game my much older brother would play. I would be crying...

This is a great description- I know this so well!!! K (bio dad) always had a cold look in his eyes, but when he got violent (physically or sexually) ...it was like his countenance would change, and looking back at me was just pure evil. It was terrifying!!! I have had to beg him for my life...

It sounds like you're better off without him! If I were you I wouldn't allow him to 'help' financially, it sounds like that may be apart of a power game and may come back to bite you in the butt at a later time in court. I would act fast! Get a good lawyer, see what you can do about getting full...

I'm so happy to hear that!!! Both bits of news!!! I'm so glad you had a child, and found the courage to leave! Please keep me updated about the book! I've started writing one too- but it's not fictional... It's basically a guide book for parents to become more aware of ways in which they can...

LOL @D123 exactly my point!!! Here's my fave choc raw food recipe (Soooooohoho daaam good!) Link Removed I use half a cup of agave syrup instead of the maple- it's healthier. I refuse to feel guilty at all eating these!!! And yes you're right- it's definitely something to take seriously! Poor...

I've been discussing your topic with a good friend of mine this week... We found a couple of websites we're hoping will help our journey to learn to love our bodies after sexual abuse: http://stophatingyourbody.tumblr.com/navigation...

What a D**KHEAD!!! Pease tell me he is no longer in your life! By the way, I really love your writing style- you're very talented! Have you considered writing a book?

I think it depends on the person... While I don't believe we can choose who we love, I believe we can choose how we love the person. Maybe you could discuss boundaries you can both set up to restructure your relationship?

Hi, hope you can find the support you're looking for here!

THANK YOU!!! It's so good to finally understand whats been going on! Makes perfect sense! My Doc hasn't been able to put her finger on it... So, it's telling me I should give up chocolate!?! :nailbiting: That is a problem for me! I'm definitely willing to compromise and eat raw macaroons etc...

I'm so happy you found the courage to be straight with her! She responded the way I hoped she would... Feels good doesn't it!!! She's strong enough and smart enough to help you through your struggles :)

Welcome wee Rusty... Hope we can help with your wee problems ;)

Thanks for a good laugh @SweetLullaby :joyful::roflmao::p:roflmao::hilarious: ...or should I say flower! :D

That's brilliant Jemini! I hope things work out... Maybe it could be a place to slowly build up your confidence again and the beginning of living your life the way you want to! My fingers are crossed for you :happy: ...if its not the right time, something else will come along when it is time...

That's brilliant @CourageofSnow !!! So happy for you- they must feel like you're irreplaceable :happy: great they appreciate you that much!!!