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If I have one, its probably a lion. I have curly hair that looks like a lions mane... And many cat like characteristics, such as being affectionate and picky... I love a good nap too!

I feel like its a test. I don't think God cares how much we own, or how much prestige/power we have in this world. I think all that matters to him is that we are doing the best we can to progress, and make a positive difference in this world.

Hi :) welcome! I don't think any of us will be back to our normal selves... But I'm a believer that we can be better, stronger people for the BS we've been through.

Have you thought about going to hospital for a while? What does your therapist say about this?

Welcome! I really hope you can grow and heal here :)

They may hold a bit of a grudge for you shaking things up, but who needs people like that anyway? At least you can be comforted knowing that there are plenty of parents out there, who appreciate what you have done for their children and the school. :) They care about you. I'm sure you'll get...

I am SO glad he is coming to his senses!!! There is just NO excuse for her behaviour!!! How DARE SHE?!? Have you asked your fiancée to refrain from discussing your personal issues with her? She strikes me as the sort of person who would pretend to be asking after you out of concern, but really...

What helps me to get through my fears is keeping my eye on the big picture :) EMDR will take no more than an hour, and the benefits will be far reaching! Its going to feel so good to eat without the same degree of anxiety! this will effect everything else for the better- your energy, health...

Wow! That's just gorgeous :happy: so proud of you for getting through the weekend so well!!!

It sound like he needs so much love! Do you both have a good support network?

Pap smears are difficult- but necessary! I prepare myself before hand, and when I go my female doctor is very compassionate about my situation - she talks me through it. I guess knowing exactly what she is doing - gives me back the feeling of being in control. Afterwards I go and treat myself to...

Fun! I'm in :)

At 16 he was definitely old enough to know better (unless he's mentally disabled?) It sounds like grooming behaviour to me. I hope it didn't evolve into anything worst than that... I completely understand why you would be traumatised by his behaviour. As an adult you clearly know that the...

I'm happy that you're having a good time! :) I'm pulling through! Chat when you get back :hug:

Ohhhh so that's where I should go when I need comfort and reassurance? Awesome! Do they show you exactly how to shake? ...'cause I'm a shakin' and nothing seems to be happening. We should all write them a letter.

That sounds great- I would love to be apart of something like that!

Wow! You should be proud of yourself!!! That's a huge deal :happy: I'm so glad you were able to enjoy your massage, there's nothing more soothing. Hope the winery is lots of fun! Have a glass of merlot for me :hilarious:

Thanks Ashley :) my prayers are with you too! Stephanie, I haven't heard of the book- sounds good though! I might look at it after I've finished working through 'healing the trauma of abuse' with Ashdawn... You're welcome to join if you like? Thanks for the reassuring words- it's really hard to...

Why can't law enforcement make lie detector tests compulsory when people reach a certain age... And weed the destroyers out. We shouldn't have to feel this hurt!!! I feel like I've been given a life sentence. If I were to add up everything I have ever done wrong, It still wouldn't even come...

I get it! God it hurts! I would totally feel better if they were dead... I think the whole world would feel better for it. They are incapable of stopping themselves from preying on the vulnerable and destroying lives.

I find music very grounding for me, sometimes when I'm shopping I will walk around with my headphones in. Some days it's just about surviving. What do you usually do to ground yourself?

Last night I was so exhausted, but I didn't sleep at all! The darkness felt like a threat... I kept getting flashes of abusers coming into my room, and being forced by my mother to say goodnight to K - which meant him taking advantage of the situation and me. On the day that most people are...

Have you tried challenging your Mum? Ask her what it is exactly that she believes your wanting, but can't give to you? Maybe by talking with your Mum, clarifying your needs and expectations of her... you can both negotiate having your needs met in ways that work for both of you. Your needs are...

Go have some fun! FuN! FUN! ...and maybe you can just take a moment to speak with your 4 yr old self, tell her how awesome, loved, and courageous she is. In the past when someone has approached me and tried to hug me, I've just firmly held out my hand for them to shake it. If they make a joke...

Wish I could make it all better for you! :( I didn't go through my papers- I just threw the lot out. No regrets! All my photos too! I just thought, why torture myself with memories from the past? None of it really matters... I (and you) can make better memories from here on in! I had a...