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Baby Pictures In The Next Week Or So I Hope!

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Hey all!

6am yesterday I had a strong pain and went to the toilet, lost some fluid and plug.

Hopped in shower, informed other half of events, so he hopped in shower with me to make sure I was OK.

Rang the midwife, told them I'd be in after breakfast, and meandered downstairs and made some scrambled eggs on toast to keep us going.

From 6-7:30 I had 4 contractions, each stronger than the last.
8:30 I was having more and more, and when swabbed and checked, I was 4cm!

8:30-12:00 I managed to get through a contraction every 2-3 min, some lasting 2 min or more.

Could not sit or lie, had 3 puffs of gas and apparently made a face akin to that of Puss in Boots as I nearly vomited.

Sitting made contractions 3x worse, so when the epi went in at 12:45, the contractions were the worst and longest.

And I had to sit down and not move at all during 3 of the worst and longest. The effort not to move or bear down made me shake violently everywhere except my back, and the effort had sweat pouring off like a bucket of water had been poured over me.

After the epi was in, I was examined, and I'd been at full dilation for at least an hr!

I told my midwives I wanted to bear down, so I did, and she moved 5cm down!

It didn't feel right, and the contractions had eased, so I stopped an hr, and waited for the contractions again, as I could feel a part of my tailbone area didn't numb.

An hr later, we decided to feel for contractions, and time pushes to those, I shocked the Midwives because I can bear down and talk or draw breath at the same time.

Look on their faces when they realized what I was doing was bloody priceless, and I started laughing at them, whilst still bearing down and it compounded it even more!

Delivery took 20min because I didn't want to tear so I took my time, and then she was born!

Nikita Mikaela was born at 3:46pm AEST, 50cm, 3.485kg, on 6th December 2013.

First I had her daddy and the world looked brighter, now I have both of them and my world is complete.
 

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I shocked the Midwives because I can bear down and talk or draw breath at the same time
I started laughing at them, whilst still bearing down and it compounded it even more!
Great! Great! Great! THAT'S exactly what I "ordered" for you! Oh, Bubz, you simply wouldn't be you if you couldn't do such wonderful crazy things!:laugh::tup: You did an amazing job!
You're both so beautiful!
How right you are, zaniara! Mom's aglow with happiness and pride! And what a cute little princess is sleeping so peaceful in your arms...

Thank you very, very much for sharing it all with us!
 
Congratulations Bubz! :happy::tup:

What a wonderful experience you got bringing this precious little girl into the world and you have given her a beautiful name. She is adorable and you look absolutely in love! I always thought it felt like my heart had been turned inside out when I had my babies. You have that same look. It's a wonderful feeling and I'm glad you get to know it.

Cheers to a great life for you and your family.
 
Well, survived another night. Caved and gave her 15ml of formula which settled her and gave me a chance to heal from first attachments which are always most painful.

Now back into the swing of things, I've averaged about 4hrs sleep which allowed me to cope, other half got 6 to 7 so he can drive safely, so we're getting along nicely.

Had to take gentle bite out of hospitality staff, who barged in no knocking, emptied water jug and exited room in one fell swoop.

Now know to knock or they'll set off my adrenaline and then be given a HARD bite!
 

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What a beautiful little girl. I have always loved the name Nikita. I am so glad you had such a smooth delivery although in the midst of everything it feels like anything but smooth. Only piece of advice I can give you from a grandma to a new mom is, follow your instincts, you know your baby better than anyone. Get all the rest you can and remember ..., the dishes can wait. Congratulations! ..., I guess that's 3 pieces.:)
 
I was doing great, and then my mother contacted me.

I was doing so well that they wanted to release me tomorrow and now I can't stop crying from sheer anger, Violation and hurt.

I dreamt about telling her to her face that she was a selfish bitch, how dare she think she can ask for pictures as a grandmother, and yet perpetrate lies told to my sister.

I spoke to my other half, and he called her and laid it down flat to her, and now apparently she's a "crying withered mess at school".

Talk about selfish, poorly timed and not caring about impact on someone else.

I spoke to my T, she thinks I should stay longer regardless of the contact from my mother.

Part of the text my mother sent me was regarding an acquaintance who died from adrenal cancer at 31 from a kidnapping about 10yrs ago.

And how life is too short for regrets.

So I sent back 3 words.

No regrets. None.
 
Aw, Bubs :hug: You and little Nikita are absolutely precious! I'm so happy the labor went well and wasn't too lengthy. Soooooo happy!

Grandma "Vovo" (what my little three year old grand-daughter calls me) says, quit messing with the messed up mother. Immediately delete any voice messages or texts on your phone, put a block on her number (if you can) and just love, love, love your new little one and yourself real good.

You, your little girl and your hubby deserve nothing less than whole hearted blessings and serenity.

I'm sooooo happy for you!!!!! :D :p :laugh:

Drew
 
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