Relationship Back From The Shut Out?

[Never Give Up]

Last week I had decided to move out and live with my parents for a week or two. I wanted to give some time to heal us. I seem to be her trigger and she likes me not being around her. So by me moving out I think may worsen our situation and marriage while she may be able to remove the anxiety and depression that was there last week. I guess I will wait and see what happens.

 

[HimOrMe]

He texted me an explanation this morning saying he had been severely depressed, crawled in a hole, and almost killed himself. He apologized and told me he loves me. I have so many questions but they're all selfish. Why if he was supposedly the happiest he's ever been did he end up in the worst mental state? Why was I the thing in his life that had to give? He was still able to work and get his tattoo. I was the trigger here and it was the worst ever and all because I wanted and expected the non-PTSD version of himself he had shown me for the last 7 months. Now that I know he almost killed himself I feel like it's my fault. What if I trigger him again?

 

[Never Give Up]

Now that I know he almost killed himself I feel like it's my fault. What if I trigger him again?

Never, Never, Never take the blame from some one's actions. You cannot control his mental state and if it was in your control, you would not allow him to be where he is.