I know it used to be thought that it was a bad idea for DID people to meet, because they would encourage each other into greater elaboration. I believe that thought has been superceded, but sitting where I am, with a new DDNOS diagnosis, I'm being very cautious about reading anything that might push me in a particular direction. It is complicated enough working out what to do now, without having to try to fit into someone else's image of how to be.