Dad's B-day Party

[Angelwings]

So, earlier I had posted about how life was seeming to revolve around my dad and his birthday and how it was overwhelming me. I was able to kindly decline attending events even though everyone else came in to town to celebrate. They didn't like it, but nobody killed me for it. I have been having a hard time with it, but that's just past stuff, making my insides freak about disobeying my father. I've survived though.

 

[macca]

@Secret I remember you posting this - I don't know if I was feeling able to post at the time, but I was thinking of you. You've done so well! That is brilliant!!! Your brain is telling you it's dangerous to disobey him, but it's learnt that it's no longer as dangerous as it once was. You've been able to be true to yourself, and your own needs. So awesome!

 

[Upside Down Eagle]

That is great!! :tup: It might feel weird and it was scary but you did it anyway.
And a very nice step to start the new year!

 

[HelenB]

You have done so well. I really hope you are also able to feed into those parts inside which feel freaked for disobeying him that you are so safe now and are able to protect yourself and that this is such a good thing and I hope you can feel comforted from that and really begin to feel safe in all of you and find the peace and freedom you deserve.

God bless
Helen

 

[Bees Are Awesome]

What a great update, @Secret! I remember reading your post regarding what to do. That must have been an amazing feeling to be able to politely decline attending. I know easier said than done but try not to feel guilty or upset about it and give yourself a pat on the back for putting yourself first. Way to go!

 

[Overcast]

So glad you made a decision for your well being and your child's well being. You are a great person and mother