Poll Do you have trouble saying no?

[blackemerald1]

I have trouble saying yes & no! I find I am stuck in the middle with crippling indecision.
I used to be ok with appropriately using both answer's. Not anymore. The internal argument rages on often into total irrelevance.

 

[Lionheart]

Sometimes I have a problem saying no. When I completely empathize with another persons struggles I feel almost obligated to help them even when it is not to my benefit, so I have to be careful.

Most of the time I do not have a problem saying, "No, No, and hell no!!!" especially when a no is clearly called for. Tough love is at times, the right answer and I must take care of my own well-being.

 

[flowerapple]

I do have a problem saying no unless it is to close family members. Otherwise I have a hard time saying no because I am afraid I will hurt their feelings, or they will get mad at me and hurt me or both. It males me feel guilty like I've done something wrong so I end up just doing whatever they want me to do. I am also afraid that is I say no they will not like me.

 

[xXRockFiendXx]

goodness this is a dreadful problem for me. I can say no to casual friends and toward things that don't hold a lot of weight, but the closer someone is, or the more important a situation is, the harder and harder it is to say no T_T It's a problem for me....