Haha...I thought the owl was a cat in a mask.
Ok..will keep this as short as possible.
Things deteriorated into daily hell, huge flashes on a daily basis until hubs had a stroke type incident on new years eve.
Since then, no big flashes,no loss of control, still has flashes but no acting out !
Then in Feb we became grandparents.
Son has just left school and fortunatly landed a job.
We are currently in a run up to a rough anniversary.
I seem to be coming undone at the seams with anxiety in some form of rebound effect.
I guess no one gets out from two years in hell unscathed.