Hi I Am New, But Very Glad To Be Here.

[teardropcalling]

I am 22 years old, female, very very angry and very sad. I can't understand why what happened to me happened and why I behaved like i did when it did happen, but i am very gald to be here.

I comfort eat all the time and weight is a big problem for me. I shared my story in "out your abuser" and that was the first time i told anybody.

Thank you

 

[cherryblossom]

Hello

Welcome to the forum. :wave:

I have moved your thread from 'Out your abuser', to 'Your Story'.

Well done for sharing your story.

 

[Lucycat]

Hi Teardrop,

Welcome to the forum. It is very difficult to understand what happened to us and why. But it did. You cannot change it, but with the help of therapy you can make it less important to your life.

Eating can be a 'coping mechanism'. Once you get on top of it all, it won't be needed so much.

Take care
Lucy x

 

[teardropcalling]

Had a crap day today. Just want to eat my head off or rip somebodies head off. Need to get therapy you're right. Feels like my life is jinxed, so angry!!!

 

[Alina]

Hey :) I'm new as well and the comfort eating thing is something I can SERIOUSLY relate to. whilst I am more curvaceous than many girls my age that is something I have generally learned to embrace. Sometimes having a little extra 'chub' as me and my mates call it can be a really positive thing, so unless it seriously affected your health, don't worry too much :) I understand how insane your emotions can get, mine go crazy from crying violently to non-stop excitement talking. If you need someone to talk to just give me a bell, venting is something we all need! Take care, dearie.

Alina xx