Hi There.

[PrincessFiona]

I am a carer when I am allowed to be. My husband has had PTSD for the past 5 years and is getting worse. So happy to find a support network and people who live my life and understand. I don't feel so alone anymore :)

 

[PrincessFiona]

Sorry I missed the introduction information. I am a cops wife, I live in NSW and I am so overwhelmed right now I don't really know what else to say.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Welcome to the forum :)

 

[Krissy]

Sorry I missed the introduction information. I am a cops wife, I live in NSW and I am so overwhelmed right now I don't really know what else to say.

Been there. Still there. Need someone to help me... not really sure what to ask for help with! Someone, take some of the craziness away so I can breathe again.

 

[PrincessFiona]

I know what you mean. Just for one day I would love to live in a world where 1 +1=2. At the moment nothing makes sense. The kids and I have been made redundant for the 16th time in 4 years without so much as a phone call. Apparently the fact that his facebook status is no longer married should be explanation and notification enough for me. We havent lived together for a while now because he tends to do this quite regular. Even though I can plot his cycles on a calender and I know they are coming, it still stings. Sorry to vent but this screen is all I have today and I have to hold it together so the kids dont pick up whats happened again. :(

 

[Froggie]

Welcome to the forum PrincessFiona. Introductions are not always easy, but you managed to get it done. I'm a sufferer and I'm so sorry that you are going through such rough times with your husband or is he your ex-husband or is that an on time off time level sort of thing. There is a special section for supporters here which will greatly help you deal with that role, or help give some direction for the kids. This forum is also meant to vent out when the pressure gets way too much. I'm sure you will have some other members here who will also give you some supporting words, guidance, friendship. What is so important is that you take care of yourself, be kind towards yourself as you so deserve it.

 

[PrincessFiona]

Thank you Frogie. I am slowly finding my way through the supporters section. Amazed that so many people are having the same experience I do. This time is the first time I have put the boundaries up and let go without the anger I normally have. Trying not to take it personally but that is easier said than done. Today is a new day... as they say :)