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Why would you put up with emotional abuse? Can you not see how incredibly damaging that is to anyone? NO boyfriend or girlfriend is worth putting up with emotional abuse--none. Get that idea out of your head forever.
You ask why you feel guilty? Because you have a co-dependent relationship with him, and this is how the dynamics of your relationship operate. You're not out of it if you are still experiencing those feelings. Rather than pondering why you feel guilty, why not discuss with your therapist why you are prone to his manipulations. The only way you are going to stop getting into unhealthy relationships is to figure out why you've done it so far. That's what a therapist is for.
Hint: the answer is usually found in your childhood.
You ask why you feel guilty? Because you have a co-dependent relationship with him, and this is how the dynamics of your relationship operate. You're not out of it if you are still experiencing those feelings. Rather than pondering why you feel guilty, why not discuss with your therapist why you are prone to his manipulations. The only way you are going to stop getting into unhealthy relationships is to figure out why you've done it so far. That's what a therapist is for.
Hint: the answer is usually found in your childhood.
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