Ten years, trillions of dollars, 5,000+ American troop and God knows how many Iraqi and Afghan lives, and one broken and decimated country later, one man is killed.
Was it worth it?
I can see how someone might have this point of view. I respect your right to have it. It just feels like a slap in the face when my family has sacrificed so much and we are actully very happy about finally getting Osama Bin Laden. The offense may not be intentional; in fact, I dont think anyone is really trying to hurt us like that, but it feels like we can't have any victory because there is always someone trying to hit us over the head with politics and their version of the facts. For every soldier I know its all far more complicated than that.
My husband brought the war home with him and likely this will be our lives from here on out, but even we can see why this is a big deal, and such statements forget that soldiers are not just killing people over there.
My husband's unit walked little girls to school so they wouldn't be kidnapped and raped. They built a school, restored electricity when the insurgents kept blowing everything up. They protected families who had been singled out by insurgents by giving them jobs with the americans and housing them. They took pride helping bring about the first true elections in Iraq. Some guys were killed because they were protecting civilans, not because they were mowing them down. I have seen military men weep about not knowing if a kid they helped, after a roadside bomb went off, survived. I know few people know this, because it doesnt seem to be media worthy and its true that many horrible things happen in war too, but maybe this is more complicated than budgets and statistics.
I suspose its stupid to feel proud of anything these days; perhaps we are just simple people looking for something to ease our losses. I guess its possible we are not qualified to judge this given our investment in it.
I just would like to see my husband feel pride again without anyone knocking him down for it. I know people will say the comment isnt directed toward us but sometime its the unintended stuff that is the hardest to deal with.