Sufferer I’m giving this a try, where are the good people?

[Still Standing]

Seriously though, many of us felt a bit paranoid when first coming to this forum. PTSD creates trust issues so you are not alone. I still have moments when I think someone is going to recognize me and find out what I am sharing. The threat of punishment, ridicule, rejection, belittling, shaming etc runs through my mind and makes sharing hard sometimes. With time, I am finding it easier and easier to feel safe here. It really is a safe place to be. There are no Big Brothers around to give you grief. That eye you saw on your posting list is about as suspicious as it gets, here. I encourage you to put your toe into our pool and see for yourself that it is a safe and comforting place to be. You are among friends here. We totally get the insecurity, distrust, anger, etc. We also understand that there is hope for coping, learning, and finding ways to help us live better lives around PTSD. Join us and share as you feel a bit more trusting of us. We are here to listen, if nothing else.

 

[Scarlet Red]

Seriously though, many of us felt a bit paranoid when first coming to this forum. PTSD creates...

Thank u. I’m glad u hv a sense of humor too. So do I...maybe I will show it soon....or not. I have searched the forums for toxic workplace and workplace bullying, not seeing much on it so far. 6 years of it at 2 different jobs are a big part of my PTSD.

 

[littleoc]

There are good people here! I've counted at least 26 of them just today! ;)

Welcome to these forums. I hope they can help you learn to be less overwhelmed and more able to feel supported and see that people who have been through the worst shit didn't come out evil -- which proves that there must be good people out in the world!

 

[Still Standing]

If this is something you would like to discuss, simply start a new posting under one of the Forum listings such as: Employment or General, or Other or whichever one you think best fits your subject matter. When you post, there will be others who relate and answer. You will find others who know what you are experiencing. Snoop around and experiment by posting and getting familiar with the site and us.

 

[Scarlet Red]

There are good people here! I've counted at least 26 of them just today! ;)

Welcome to these forums....

Yeah, I don’t know they do that. Although I’m a very good person. Just not willing to give that to many ppl anymore.

If this is something you would like to discuss, simply start a new posting under one of the Foru...

Ok. I will do that soon. It’s exhausting as I’m sure you all know to go into what’s created the freaking PTSD. I appreciate the friendliness and attention as a new member.

 

[ILoveLife]

Welcome :)

 

[ladee]

It's real important for you to take your time.. and to set your own pace... I just read a lot when I first got here. Just to get the 'feel' of the place and the people here... I did an introduction and then just browsed around. You are under NO obligation to share what got you here. You can ask questions if you want, say, about 'anxiety', under that heading in Forums... and get feedback if you want it. At any time you can even say you don't want feedback.. that's ok too.. sometimes we just need to vent or ramble...

It's partly overwhelming because surely this many people can't be sincere and NICE... much less understanding.. I totally get that.. Just take your time... you stepped out, let us know you are here... and that took a lot of courage, so pace yourself how ever you are comfortable.. People have been here for years before they posted... yep, so, lots to read, we don't always have to post... But still glad you are here !!

 

[Joan]

Welcome to the forum. As others have said take your time in looking around, comment as you feel comfortable. There is no time frame of when you have to share or comment. I hope that you find the support you want/need here.

 

[CrossingMyLine]

Hi! Welcome! I’ve not been able to “haunt” the forums much, but I’ve yet to have some @*!^ insinuate that my feelings are just hurt and that I should just “get over it”. So, that’s a great start! I hope you find this site as comforting as I do. Take care of yourself.