I Dont Think My Wife Likes Me

[sun seeker]

I am sorry but I don't understand what you are trying to relay.

Sorry, I missed that before.

You agreed with my theory but said, if I understood correctly, that you weren't sure whether you would know how to use it. I suggested enlisting your therapist's help. This is something therapists are usually good at. That's all I meant, sorry it wasn't clear.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

@Bookoffee,

@sun seeker has me on ignore, so when she sees your reply, she doesn't see that you quoted me, and thus she thinks that you are replying to her. That's why her last reply to you makes no sense!

You could reply to let her know that you weren't talking to her b/c she won't see this message, either.

 

[Dee Morris]

Her behavior is very abusive. You keep talking about the topic of the argument as if it's relevant and it's not. I get the impression that the topic could just as easily been about Teletubbies. BTW, financial deception is not a great element in relationships either. I sincerely hope your therapist is able to help you find some peace because nobody should live their life on egg shells, being yelled at and feeling hated.

 

[Bookoffee]

@sun seeker thank you for your advice. We were able to have a nice talk on Saturday. She wants me to engage in conversation more as I have been trapped in my head for a few month now. The way she explained how quiet and scared of every move I make, became clear to me that I am listening to the past trauma more then her. She helped me come up with ideas to stop the past trauma telling me to leave her alone and figure things out on my own. She wants to apart of my life and help make the decision.

I was able to notice what she explaining Sunday morning. I was moving things off the Island and putting them in different places. I didn't know what to do with them and I was going to ask for her to help me, but I heard the past abuse of everyone yelling at me to leave her alone, she will only get upset with me for asking her to get out of bed and help me.

She became upset with me for not asking for help. We had a nice long talk about going with my first instinct and not listen to past. we were able to reconnect and hold each other.

We had a few bumps throughout the weekend but we had more connection that we haven't had in a while. I was able to see that beautiful smile of hers.

Thank you