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Gosh, in retrospect, Quaint, it does seem amazing how that tripped me up. She asked if I was upset and I could have simply said....
"Yes, I was having a hard time and got upset we couldn't chat."
Sigh....
AMAZING how hard it was for me to deal with that....
She would have said she was sorry, and I would have said, oh well, that's life, but....
boy it's scarier in real time, and being dissociated too. Very scary.
Yuck, transference.
We'd been talking about anger, the week before, and how I found in my childhood, anger was reserved for the strong.... sometimes, it's like by talking about something.... it comes right out.
"Yes, I was having a hard time and got upset we couldn't chat."
Sigh....
AMAZING how hard it was for me to deal with that....
She would have said she was sorry, and I would have said, oh well, that's life, but....
boy it's scarier in real time, and being dissociated too. Very scary.
Yuck, transference.
We'd been talking about anger, the week before, and how I found in my childhood, anger was reserved for the strong.... sometimes, it's like by talking about something.... it comes right out.
