Relationship Lets Talk About Sex And Intimacy

[Buttercup]

I'm so sorry you are going through this Michelle4help. To me, it sounds like you need to get into therapy very quickly. And communicate really well with your partner too so he can understand it's not him, but what you are going through.

Also, post on the sufferers side of the forums if you haven't already. They probably have a lot of suggestions and guidance for you.

 

[Lostinlove4myvet]

So my husband seems to have a different issue... There is NO lack of sex drive, but instead he ha...

So sad to see this thread cold. I have the same issue with my vet. He will go for hours and tells me that he enjoys pleasuring me, that it is a turn on for him. I do believe this for sure. I feel awful that he can not "have a happy ending". I've often wondered if it's an emotional connection. Where it's easier to achieve climax with a stranger, rather than someone who you care for? Like there's a connection between the release and emotion . In 7 months, I FINALLY saw him release, the first and only time, just over a week ago. I felt a wave of accomplishment with this. Probably shouldn't have shown him my excitement , but I did. I thought that perhaps that meant that he is finally comfortable with me. But he ghosted on me the next day. Typical few days then showed back up at my door. Spent 3 days together, no sex involved. Which isn't anything new. But I had hoped that since the first release that future releases will follow maybe not EVERY TIME , but at least more frequently. Time will tell. On the other side of that token I worry that it could mean the complete opposite and that he's losing interest. It's a very jagged double edged sword . Hoping for the best and I wish the best for you, and all of us here

 

[Lostinlove4myvet]

I came across this thread on a desperate search for answers - let's face it, Google search is cheaper than a the...

I have no solid good advice, Lord I do wish I did. You should make this comment alone a thread if it's own. I've seen many post with others in the same hell as you. Make this a thread, you're not alone! Find those here that can help, I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.