longlostlove
New Here
After being on here a few days, I am realizing just how lucky I am. It seems like many of you out there are experiencing much more problems than I am. I have found that I am being a little insensitive to the whole situation. I am really having a change in perspective. I love my combat vet and I have been supportive to him but not like some of you out there have! I can and will do better. I have learned ways to deal with some common problems. I have had others (family, who are not in our shoes) make judgement or pass opinions on and that is one thing that I need to learn to do, not listen to everything they say. Yes, sometimes they maybe right but ultimately I need to consider all thoughts and problems in a different light. I need to find a way to distress and take time for me to be able to handle some of the problems we have PTSD. Right now my husband is in a depressive state but I think it could be a whole lot worse. And I am very thankful for him to be in my life and for him to be who he is. Sure we all have our flaws, PTSD or not, but learning how to manage and cope with some problems will help our relationship so much better.
