Yes. Completely normal. This is why it is going to be important right now to work on your self care, doing things that make you happy with friends and family, and being in a good place for him for when he returns to you. It is going to feel so tough and almost impossible but you can do it. Being in a relationship with someone who has PTSD can actually be a life-changing experience for the supporter, giving them the chance to grow as a person. It has forced me to confront a lot of my fears about abandonment and learn a lot of things about myself. Does that make sense?Is it normal for the supporter to feel empty at times, completely confused and lost, and devoid of any hope?