I agree with Snowangel, he's using this situation as emotional blackmail. It's not your fault that he has or got PTSD. That happened a very long time ago. The fact that a huge number of vets both past and present will not ever seek care for it is both sad and alarming. If he's truly interested in getting better he will do something about it regardless of the current situation that you and he have.
It's hard to do but it's time to concentrate on you and move forward, perhaps without him. As with all things, time is the factor. Do something nice for yourself, you deserve it.
It's hard to do but it's time to concentrate on you and move forward, perhaps without him. As with all things, time is the factor. Do something nice for yourself, you deserve it.