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OCD Ocd ers... and hoarding

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njray

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........ I have come to learn this disorder exists in someone close to me and I am trying to learn more out about this disorder... (no it is not me as i have my own adhd and ptsd issues to deal with). It appears like that of ADHD it may be genetic?...... Has anyone here been diagnosed with ocd and had another family member also been diagnosed with it. This person I know suffers from excessive hoarding and just like the TV shows this person has hoarded to the point of having homes torn down because of the filth they lived in. I also believe there may be sexual issues as well and more..... I can understand these being touchy subjects but if you would care to private chat with me about this disorder it would mean a great deal to me...

Thanks njray
 
Hi, I have had OCD for as long as I can remember.(as early as 5) At the time of course, I had no idea that this was an anxiety disorder. I was practically a baby right. It started out as you know that saying, step on a crack, break your mother's back. Well I took that very seriously. Then it moved on to counting things a certain number of times so that something awful would not happen to someone that I loved. In my head it is a thought not a voice that says to me if I do not do something a certain way or something x amount of times that someone I love is going to die. I did this I believe because in my very young mind, I thought I could make the abuse going on in the house not as bad as it could have been had I not done the things that I did. *Awsome powers for a 5 year old right!* Even today that I know it is an anxiety disorder and makes no sense at all, the thoughts are still so strong that it is hard to ignore them. They are still in my head 24/7. It is an awful disorder. I have taken many types of meds to try to stop it but nothing helps.

Then I also have OCD about germs. Germs, germs everywhere! OMG!!!

Hope that helps a little bit.
 
Yes, I also personally have what I call superstitions. Since I'm religious in an extremely (I believe) sensible way, it's very ridiculous when I catch myself at it.

I mean, I cannot really make it rain and screw up our weekly hike by washing all the dirty dishes on Tuesday. You can't believe how I rationalize just leaving them. Just until evening though.

Hoarding, big yupperooni on that one. My aunt Jo (grandmother's sister) had boxes of personal supplies and various small food staples when we cleaned out her house. I mean, seriously. My mom did not have to purchase toiletries or spices for five YEARS.

And my mom, herself, will not throw away any scrap of schoolwork, or artwork, or baby stuff, or Halloween costumes, or any tiny bit of cloth she's amassed over fifty years as a semi-professional seamstress. I believe there's about 200 boxes of textile scraps stashed here and there, alone.

In the old house, the kids rooms were starting to get used for "temporary storage." this house is four times as large and there's boxes in the hallway.

It's not cats though. And mom cleans this house pretty well. :O

And I'm not free of the family curse either. I have to check carefully on a regular basis with an inventory app I keep, to ensure that perception that we need something, checks with reality!! Every now and then hubby will say, "No more toothbrushes! We have PLENTY!" Oops.

For a while I did struggle with the animal hoarding syndrome. I was right on the edge. The key to that, I believe, for most people I know, is the idea that the animal couldn't be happy anywhere else.

Like other OCD issues, it's a control thing. Once I saw that, I started reining in the activities that were tempting me to be a hero just once more, and work on my control issues.

I'm down 45 sheep, 30 ducks, and 5 dogs. What's here will be here until natural attrition takes over, at this point. I still look like a crazy dog lady with 11 dogs, but everything's clean and no one's eating anybody else, like you see in those Animal Cops cases. Eww.
 
Thanks all for your replies

I kind of get the hoarding animals related to abuse and wanting to save an other creature. The daughter of this person (whom i discribed above in the original post that is ocd/b) makes sure everything gets thrown out and makes sure she does not miss garbage pick up and has plenty of garbage cans to handle all the garbage she has to throw out.(I suspect this is her way of dealling with her fathers poor behavior of not throwing any thing out) I have observed her obsessing over money tremendously and when she is around persons like her she exibits signs of extreme anxiousness has anyone observed this or experienced this. Does anyone know about or read about the correlation of sex behavior issues to ocd/b (obsessive compulsive disorder or behavior). She has been known to be overly zealous in the sex dept to say the least while not making great judgements to whom she picks as partners all though she is of a quite intelligent and of educated mind.

Of course you may pm if that makes you more comfortable to dialog
njray
 
Just to pitch in some behaviors I'm guilty of, I tend to hold onto scraps of clothing for a long time 'just in case' that I end up doing nothing with. It is suspected this has something to do with my 'poor period' where my mother and I had little money and as such a clung to every possession I had.
 
I have a long list of obsessive compulsive behaviours ranging from germs, to checking, to confessing and relationship ruminating.

I'm not sure whether it's actually OCD, learned behaviours or behaviours that result from all my guilt and shame.

My mother has always had a big fear of germs and my dad has always needed to check everything multiple times. I don't know whether that's an argument for genetics or learned behaviour.

My psychiatrist isn't sure. I'm on 40mg of Fluoextine and 3mg of Invega - I've managed to stop a lot of the checking and germ fears but the confessing and ruminating are as bad as ever.
 
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