Relationship Scared and lost

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He also doesn’t get to dictate that you stand there and take piles of abuse. You walking away is you setting a boundary. I will not be yelled at/name-called/ spoken to like that. I will leave, and I will do it every time. We can talk when you can speak to me like an adult.

You have to set that boundary, or nothing will change.

I absolutely agree with this line of thinking! This is so incredibly important to your health and well being. Boundaries are *SO GREAT*!! :) lol - I love them!

 

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If I walk away, even when he demands I do, I’m accused of abandoning him which leads to more issues.

If he says you are abandoning him, I believe that is another type of guilt trip - and not entirely realistic, because you are taking care of yourself. Walking away and/or taking a time out can work wonders, he can calm down, you can take care of yourself. It's a very good idea. !! :)