Understand, it ain't you... It's just my way. Life isn't easy... there are any number of degrees of separation that people put on to life events... I know that. I'm well traveled here in the states, rational mind kicks in and it serves me... though I don't buy it "entirely" if you get what I mean. ??? I am not there, nor was our family in Dallas/Fort Worth. I was not in Orlando, David was. I was not on the planes that hit the tower or went down in PA, my cousin and aunt's associations were. I was not in ... ad infinitum... I've just been there, lived there, know people there. If ya get my drift.