Speak isn't even the correct word, it's text.
When we were together last, it was nice but very short. He had hurt himself the week before and needed a surgical procedure scheduled for one of the days we supposed to spend together. He's also very depressed because the injury may have caused permanent damage which may prevent him from continuing his favorite hobby.
On the rare occasions that we do text he always talks about how sad he is. I feel like I trigger it. It was another time of me being in town and things going wrong. And I always end up feeling like I said the wrong thing.
I do try to talk about other things. I mentioned a trip abroad that my daughter and I will be taking. He warns me to be careful because of the political climate in one country and tells me I'll Iove one of the cities in another.
I just don't know what to think at this point. I don't know how to be supportive and I don't know what he wants from me. Part of me thinks I complicate his situation, I know he complicates mine.
When we were together last, it was nice but very short. He had hurt himself the week before and needed a surgical procedure scheduled for one of the days we supposed to spend together. He's also very depressed because the injury may have caused permanent damage which may prevent him from continuing his favorite hobby.
On the rare occasions that we do text he always talks about how sad he is. I feel like I trigger it. It was another time of me being in town and things going wrong. And I always end up feeling like I said the wrong thing.
I do try to talk about other things. I mentioned a trip abroad that my daughter and I will be taking. He warns me to be careful because of the political climate in one country and tells me I'll Iove one of the cities in another.
I just don't know what to think at this point. I don't know how to be supportive and I don't know what he wants from me. Part of me thinks I complicate his situation, I know he complicates mine.
