Things I would tell myself

[LunaticOnTheFritz]

Stay away from the guys.

Do whatcha gotta do to take care of yourself.

You do matter.

 

[Justmehere]

Be grateful to yourself more

 

[Teasel]

Asos is shit.

 

[mszl]

You don't need to be perfect and the best. And don't trust this guy.

 

[Teasel]

Get yourself some alone time.
Regularly.
Properly alone time.
And an occupational therapist

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

This too shall pass…

 

[Friday]

Fight dirty.

 

[Dave Ryan]

Try my hardest to convince my 14-year-old self to report the bullying.

And, if that failed, at least try to convince him that:

1/ there's absolutely no shame in having to wear women's shapewear, and
2/ hard as it may to believe, wearing a girdle does get easier to deal with over time.

 

[VioletButterfly]

You are good.
You are worthy.
You have value.
You are enough.
You do not have to take anyone acting out their insanity on you - you deserve better.
You are strong and resilient.

 

[VioletButterfly]

You are brave and tenacious!

 

[user56652]

You’re still here.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

Drop out of school as soon as you turn 18. You’ll be legally an adult and the state can’t force you to attend school. Your life isn’t going to get any worse by dropping out and you’ll be able to get the therapy you will need to recover from all the trauma that high school caused you much earlier. If you graduate, you’ll only regret not dropping out.