What Are You Feeling Today? Not Thinking, Rather Feeling! Can You Identify Yours?

[CraftyCath]

One will be 17 in January and the other just turned 14.

Thank you both. x

Mine are 19 and 22, grown men who should know better by now. I refuse to get involved in their petty squabbles.

What they need is a woman each and a place of their own - they are way to big for the nest and I want some peace and quiet!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Cath, I worked in a animal rehab once and discovered that the parents of teenage bluejays kick them out of the nest because they become so obnoxious and loud at feeding time.

I wish you the best with yours. They are really comfortable living with you. They need to have some goals of finding their own place and learning to live on their own. I had to put up with alot until my son moved out. He was the main instigator.

 

[Britt.f7]

a place of their own - they are way to big for the nest and I want some peace and quiet!

Okay, am I so bad that I consider that when they turn 18 they move out of the house? I guess that's because that was what I was told, though she did allow me the time I needed to find a place. Of course I do know with the economy that many adults are moving back with their parents. I know my sisters boys keep ending up living with her and they are in their early twenties. She is looking to move into a smaller home just so they can't/won't keep doing that.

My mom would get mad at me when I would complain about my younger sister and that wasn't too long ago. I guess I felt I couldn't go to my sister to vent out my frustrations with her so I went to my mom. I know it wasn't fair.

I wish you peace in your home.

 

[99Phoenix99]

I'm really upset. I've been in the ER all day and have been triggered really badly and just having an awful day. I just... It's one thing after the other.

It's not appendicitis but a hemmoraging ovarian cyst.

I'm exhausted, in pain, and mentally just not in a good place. My PTSD is medical based ... This couldn't have been worse.

Just when I felt like I was making progress I get kicked down. Again.

I'm sick of this.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I am sorry Phoenix that you are still there and going through this. I hope you do not have to do surgery for it. I hope it is something medication can help. I am sad that you are in so much pain. Hugs.

 

[KP the nut]

I'm waiting in the ER to be checked out for possible appendicitis

It's not appendicitis but a hemmoraging ovarian cyst.

Ouch Phoenix. Hold on. Breathe and ground. I hope you have someone there who can explain your fears to the staff, and that the staff listen. :hug:

I told them to sort it out himself and then he threw all his temper onto me. My eldest had called me a stupid bitch just before this.

Cath, maybe wait until they are calm and lay down some boundaries. Tell them how it makes you feel, tell them you love then but that you are deeply disappointed in them and hurt. Then tell them if they don't change their ways, they will have to find elsewhere to go.

It is time for tough love and if they don't listen - I'll bring Saffi and Max to visit :devilish:.

 

[KP the nut]

I'm feeling mellow, content and happy. I have had a wonderful night with H. He loved the meal I cooked, the wine and the candles. It seems such a long time since I did this.

He deserves it all for all the support he has given me and it has made me feel better about myself as well.

 

[Five Leaves Left]

Kind of a bit freaked out by the changes here! I was just starting to get used to the old layout, and now my poor frazzled brain has to cope with CHANGE! Not necessarily a bad thing, but just a tad more stress than I needed at the moment - good night all!!!! :hug: :sleep:

Hear that! I've been saying that tons lately. It's a weird mix. It always looks bad on the outside, but you know what's actually going on on the inside.

 

[Slynn]

Drained, angry, tired, and scared because I just looked in the mirror and barely recognise myself for the dark rings under my eyes.

 

[GreenFrog2]

Feeling blah. Overwhelmed, confused, tired, impatient. Too much stuff floating around in my head. Wishing I was calm.

 

[BlackbirdSinging]

I was going to say ok and I guess that's true but, I've been irritable and impatient off and on today. Right now I'm trying to not think. I think I'm kinda numb really. I don't know if I want to feel because, I don't know what I'd feel. And if it's anxiety.. I'd rather be numb.

 

[Traumagirl]

I do feel anxious this morning. My main treatment for this anxiety is caffeine. It's the only thing that works without making me need to go to bed. Unfortunately, too much caffeine is bad for you. We'll see if I can balance things out.

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