My neighbor came over to show me a Valentine card that she had found in her mailbox with a box of chocolate. The card was not signed. I allowed her to express her feelings about it. After she had compared this card's handwriting to something else, she realized that it had come from his man who was a friend of theirs before her husband died.
What got me, is that this guy is married. She even commented that he used the pronoun of "I", not we. This card and what he said on it, would have crossed my boundaries, and that is what I had to realize. She was okay with this guy giving her a romantic card which mentions love, etc. on it. She even sent him a text over it.
She needed to vent over over stuff and I realized that I will need to watch my boundaries with her in the future.