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Toria

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Well, we decided that if we didn't get away for a few days then we would explode - through personal and work stress... so we booked in for three nights at Centre Parcs in the Lake District and paid not a small amount to spend three days in the Spa there - three days of sheer pampered bliss... :)

Friday: dropped the dog off at kennels :cry:, got there after lunch and had a lovely afternoon.

Saturday: am went ok. pm the spa got noisier with groups of people laughing and shouting - not against the law, but the spa is supposed to be a bit library-like - you whisper, you dont yell at someone sitting six feet away from you. Husband starts to get twitchy.

Sunday: Husband wakes up not speaking and wont get out of bed. Eventually get him to spa. am lovely. pm quite noisy again and Husband shouts at a group of people. Back to the room and the "6 year old on orange smarties" emerges. We go for a drink and he sits and lectures me about how busy I am, how tired I always am etc etc for 30 minutes. We go to the restaurant - which is disastrous. Husband has a roudy group sitting behind him who throw stuff and it ends up hitting him. He storms out. We end up havinga drink in another restaurant and there's a mix up with staff and we don't get served too quickly - Husband takes this as a personal sight and walks out. Back to the room and he wont speak - just lies in bed staring at the wall.

Monday: Husband wakes up a sobbing, shaking wreck. Home

If I ever mention the word HOLIDAY ever again will someone please tell me not to bother...
 
*nods vigorously* yes - I think adult only is the way to go!!! The thing is we'd been there before and it had done him the world of good - he came out the first day totally refreshed and it just got better from there. It felt like the last place we had where we could get away. Ah well - you live and learn. We don't have time off now until September so the next installment is a long way off...
 
So sorry it did not go as planned Toria.

Maybe that is why I have just suggested a quiet retreat in Wales by the sea for us this year.

Oh boy first proper holiday since June 2007.
 
Sorry to hear the news. I've been begging H for us to take a little retreat together to get some fresh air, but we're so swamped with buying the new house and moving we have little room for anything fun.

He rarely responds well to "relaxing" environments anyway as they tend to put him on edge. That sounds strange.

Anyway, heres to hoping by September there will be enough improvement to enjoy the break.

Amethist - I think that sounds lovely.
 
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