What Made You Angry Today?

[Ironlady]

You're alive, there, and loving.

Three most important bases covered.

I just worry about how my stuff affects them.. I don't ever want them to feel rejected and think that their mama didn't care about them.. And I feel like when I get like this that's exactly how I'm making them feel.

 

[Ronin]

And I feel like when I get like this that's exactly how I'm making them feel.

Tell them? Depending on their age, you can liken it to something physical they can imagine, (tootes like having a flu, I might be all distant looking and sneezy around and keeping away so you don't catch it too darlings, but that's out of love and care and you did nothing wrong, distancing helps me keep you safe :sneaky:) ditto to any other symptom you're struggling with.

As long as you're communicating (or: the very minimum, that they did nothing wrong and are loved and it's not because of them or punishment) & not abusive, things can get sorted. :hug:

 

[Ironlady]

Tell them? Depending on their age, you can liken it to something physical they can imagine, (tootes like h...

I do explain to them that the best way I can and try to use metaphors to help them understand. I guess because I have never really known what it is to feel safe that I assume by feeling unsafe they won't either.. You seem to know how to reach me R. Thank you. I know you had a rough day too so thank you for being supportive, caring and helpful To me.. Save some of that awesomeness for yourself too. <3

 

[Gadgie]

I got really angry today when I phoned the hospital about my upcoming operation, only to be told that my notes still haven't been sent to the department concerned!!!!

Despite being told by the heart doctor that he had sent them four days ago!!!

I hate being lied to!!!!!!!!

 

[NatBird]

Today I'm angry that I have a lot good to share but can't get it out.
I'm angry I feel trapped, stuck, entangled in a web.
I feel angry that people judge me as being moody, rude, closed off, unkind.
I'm angry for all I've lost and it seems there's just more and more of it.

 

[jaccat]

Really bad, dangerous, idiot, drivers- and there's an epidemic of them in my town right now, and the fact that someone has tried hacking my Paypal account again for the second time in 2 months.

And that Paypal have had me on hold now for 13 minutes and counting...

 

[Ronin]

People who have no idea of Not Assaulting Other People.

Done being helpful. They deserve to burn.

 

[Freedomfighter]

Funny that I saw this thread this morning. I don't get angry very often either. Today......this morning when...

You are bringing up some very interesting points there: I have noticed that too: people that behave badly and then some moms that are actually proud of the promiscuous monsters they raise and dads that are actually proud of boys that misbehave.

I would be horrified if I were the parent of the young doped up, loose young women that work in my office, absolutely horrified.

 

[Gs172003]

Tell them? Depending on their age, you can liken it to something physical they can imagine, (tootes lit..

I didn't know until mine were grown. I would give my right arm to have known when they were still kids. Kids are alot more understanding than you think if they know what they are dealing with.

 

[Anrish]

My chief - again.

He told me that if I only take a day off and don't take a holiday, I'm not allowed to drive away because something might happen! ...and who takes days off and travels someplace else?! Him!!! JERK!

 

[Ronin]

Interrogativeness in closed spaces with the person pointing out how closed space it is.

Well, no, bitch, to me it's wiiide open space and includes walking over your corpse.
Inshallah I keep having it together as much as I have so far. Tiresome as sanity is.

 

[Anrish]

My sister - complaining that I never call her but when I call she doesn't answer the phone or doesn't call back...:meh: