What Made You Angry Today?

[goingonhope]

Sh't that would anger anyone, has made me feel angry throughout much of this day and yet I'm too tired to remember what or to go there.

However, I would like to have some words with the bullies at my son's school, the assistant principal who has done nothing previously and the principal at that BS school. Sure anybody can put signs, intentions and mission statements up and claim to take bullying most seriously, but do they actually do so.

Reminds me of the jackass who reassurred my H that I was in the right ER for trauma after my automobile accident, ...and all friggin ignorant like - saying, "We are a trauma center you know!" Fck you, sh't heads, ...YOU ARE NOT!

....think friggin claims, broadcasts and use of those words: "We are a trauma center!" ...makes it so. Those are lies and the people there f'n liars. :grumpy:

 

[JustBe]

The man apologised and began beating the dog with its lead, I was so horrified.

:mad: What a jerk! That's like beating kids to teach them to be gentle!:mad:

 

[Whitneys story]

)(((((((((((((((((((Everyone)))))))))))))))))))(

Sending serenity and healing to all that new feelings will soon replace the anger.

 

[Hashi]

1. I need to talk to my union because I'm being made redundant and they didn't call me back.
2. While I'm losing my job, someone who isn't good at theirs but sucks up to the boss is going to be promoted.
3. Trying to do get a big piece of work finished today, and the person I'm doing it with kept spacing out and doing dopey things, delaying everything so I had to work nearly three hours past my finish time.
4. Organising a social event on Saturday which two friends were supposed to be helping with and had definitely confirmed, then today each said separately that they weren't going to make it - meaning extra time, work and costs for me. Thanks for nothing.
5. Found out that someone I know through work is dying, which I was upset about, and my boss was his usual insensitive self about it, asking whether anyone even cared.
6. Stinky person on the bus.

This was all today.

Why don't people do their jobs, have some self-respect, stick to their commitments (or not make them in the first place), realise their limitations on tact and keep their mouths shut and either have a bath or have the courtesy not to inflict themselves on other people on public transport?

I am so angry right now.

It's been a really, really bad day.

 

[KP the nut]

I'm being made redundant
2. While I'm losing my job, someone who isn't good at theirs but sucks up to the boss is going to be promoted.

(((Hashi))). I'm so sorry you are going through this. The same happened to me in May 11. I was made redundant. I had a great work record and many successful projects. Then I had my trauma from an accident in which among other injuries, I broke my neck. Obviously I missed a lot of work at the wrong time.

I lost my job whilst another who spent her days trawling shopping sites on the net kept hers. I was devastated as it was not only a job I loved but I was damn good at it.

I tried to fight but to no avail.

The odd thing is, once it was all over, I felt much less stressed and began to manage my symptoms. I could focus on me and my healing.

Financially it is a struggle and I still miss it.

I wish you well, you deserve the best.

 

[Hashi]

Thank you., KP I appreciate it.

I'm sorry you've had a similar experience. I understand what you say about focussing on healing - already I'm feeling relief at the idea that I won't have to deal with work too and can focus on self care and moving forward.

My colleague and I both had the chance to make written representations to our employer about the potential restructuring. Typically, mine was a factual, thoughtful analysis of the situation. His was about how great all the bosses are and how interested he was in a promotion. It was like a letter to Santa! Obviously a letter to Santa was all they wanted. They'll get the employee they deserve.

 

[Queen Boudica]

The neighbour whose property is next to our driveway and who keeps the vicious 70 kg central asian shepherd dog on his tiny plot of land and that dog barks and growls and jumps up at us every time we walk up and down our driveway. He has now accused my 9 year old son of intimidating his dog. We came home and my son was jumping around as he ran down the driveway and the dog was barking away and this huge must be 6ft 4 ins tall neighbour comes out on his deck that overlooks down onto our driveway and says to my son in a really intimidating way "Don't you dare" and then says to me to stop my son from tormenting his dog.

That dog that everyone is terrified of, that has to be walked with a muzzle that barks at night and at the neighbours kids on the property next to us and to anyone who passes our driveway. And who my youngest is so terrified of she is now terrified of all dogs and my kids cannot play on their own driveway without being barked at. Somehow my son is initmidating it. And when I stood up for my son and said that dog was vicious and nasty and had been intimidating us from the day they moved in, he then resorts to telling me to go inside and cry. The guy is a bully through and through and if he dares intimidate or threaten my son I will be calling the police.

 

[Hashi]

He has now accused my 9 year old son of intimidating his dog.

Projection and bullying seem to go hand in hand. It's classic for bullies to say they're being victimised. Can't believe your neighbour's now voicing this for his nastily-behaved dog. I'm sorry you have this situation.

 

[intothelight]

Someone's self-centeredness and piss poor attitude towards everyone and everything around them. Stood up to the crap and I will not tolerate it. I am sorry, but when I run circles around the most able-bodied person in this household, there is a problem!

I reminded them of the terms of our agreement for them returning here and they broke two of the terms yesterday. Today she has a new rectum because I am sick of her load of :poop:. Time to GROW UP and take RESPONSIBILITY. I will force it on her if I have to.

All of this because I ask that she take change HER bed and re-make it. Like that is something horrible, but it is my house and my rules. If you don't like them, there is the door!!!!!

 

[JustBe]

I'm right there with you intothelight! I raised two sons and had the same issues when they were ready to "leave the nest"!

 

[Srain]

I'm angry at myself for losing time on old crap! I know better but I got "bit by the viper" :cautious:...my Son had to remind that our contract was that I was to keep in touch with him..at least a text and I had forgotten in my swirl of backlash.

 

[amethist]

Legal teams who do their best to put you down when they are in the wrong.