My Choice to Love and be kind, even though I feel like a devastaded mess inside. It makes me feel very good to brighten someone else's day with a smile or a few words, or get them a little gift to let them know I remember who they are, what they like, and that I care. (We're not talking big expenses here, just like a bunch of grapes when I know their favorite grapes are the green ones and I happen to find them on sale!)