What to do with erotic transference

[Deleted member 42783]

I'm really interested in hearing how things go if you bring this up with your T. I'm going through something similar with my T and I'm fearful of bringing it up.

 

[Deleted member 34328]

I wish it would go away for you too.

1 step at a time. You've shared this with a person that you trust. Perhaps that's part of why this is so hard. It feels shameful and dirty. No, it doesn't seem better to be told "it's not or ever was your fault". Of course that's the truth, but that doesn't make it better.

I really can't imagine what this feels like for you. I only know my own experiences and yes, I often describe things as a being run over by a train and then stuck on the track while the next one hits. It just never stops.

Yes, one big thing comes out of the closet only to have a huge pile of junk come tumbling after it.

All I can really encourage you with is to keep on keeping on. You're obviously not a quitter. Your a survivor and will win the fight. Many battles in between, but the fight will be one.

Keep posting and sharing. There are so many here for you.

 

[Thea778]

If you want to keep it out of your current therapy find a therapist of the sex you are not attracted to....

Except if they're of the sex by which you had the original problem.