Orangesfrompears
Learning
Hi Everyone, My on/off girlfriend is very aware she can’t meet my needs for intimacy or spending time with me - something which I happily give space for. But it turns into essentially me waiting and trying to just be (I’m good at keeping myself busy and doing my own life). And she feels responsible and guilty, which turns into her saying she doesn’t want it anymore, and then it’s another day and she does.
I’m looking for advice on what perhaps she needs to hear from me? What words and sentiments could possibly help any of you who experience similar situations?
I’m looking for advice on what perhaps she needs to hear from me? What words and sentiments could possibly help any of you who experience similar situations?