Pointing out privileges isn't an attack. It's pointing out 'I have to do this and that for things you have easier access to'.
Lets have a look.
You're complaining about LGBT+ & folk of color scholarships that were unavailable to you, while completely ignoring people of color & sexual minority people get tossed out of schools, jobs, and killed without society as much as batting an eyelash daily, on a much larger scope.
All this privilege talk isn't saying you've got it easy because you're of the privileged group.
It's saying you've got it easier in this / that regard just because you're not that other group.
That doesn't mean your life's cherries and sunshine. But it means there's not gonna be raining cats and dogs on you just because you happen to be the wrong color and love the wrong guy. It's going to be for other reasons.
Lets cut this into two parts. First part, being you telling Spekx that he was complaining.
Pointing out the privilege that LGTB+ and people who aren’t white get in the form of scholarships while accusing Spekx of complaining is a shaming tactic (which btw is a tactic also used on people of the LGTB+ community). He wasn’t complaining. He made a valid point that you drove through the mud by throwing the completely off topic extreme situation of people of sexual minorities. That what he experienced means nothing because he wasn't thinking of others!
Now with the second part about all this privilege talk. These two sentences cancel each other out. It’s word nullification:
this isn't saying/It's saying because
you are/you're not. In certain things, the person
has it easy compared to others, which means
they've got it easier than others in certain things. You’ve not clarified anything. You’ve cemented that all this privilege talk is saying white people got it easy.
No one’s life is cherries and sunshines. Telling a person their point is invalid because their version of raining cats and dogs is because of
other reasons is not only complete and utter crap, it’s proof that pointing out privileges
is an attack. Because Spekx can’t become gay, or black, to have access to those scholarships. These aren't choices but damn you make it look like they are, because he doesn't qualify and has to do this or do that, so therefore shouldn't talk.