Why Can't Feel Good After An Orgasm

[Tepoh]

Unless I am stoned or drunk, I can't enjoy sex with my partner. If I am doing stuff alone, I can feel good at the time (despite the weird humiliating fantasies) but after orgasm feel horrible. This wasn't this extreme before ptsd. Plus, it seems like reliving my trauma puts my body in a sexually tense state all the time, so this turns into a weird never ending daily orgasm followed by feeling horrible.

 

[Lumol]

Sexual dysfunction in response to traumas or in addition to PTSD.

 

[Arijo]

Wow I can totally relate to this. The first time I fell in love, I would sob uncontrollably after orgasm.
The dirty feeling comes from old stuff, the way my T explained it is that I wanted to orgasm when my father messed with me, because it feels good but I knew it was bad so mixed up my head.
I'm over sexual also. But I think it gets easier.

 

[Kecoz]

"Why Can't Feel Good After An Orgasm?"

I think you already answered your question in the body of your post.

 

[Tepoh]

"Why Can't Feel Good After An Orgasm?"

I think you already answered your question in the body of your post.

So... how do I fix this?

 

[Hikuk]

So... how do I fix this?

I have no idea. :( Hopefully your T can provide suggests about how disconnect your past from your sexual present.

 

[Akuma]

Have you thought about trying bondage with a safe word & a professional in the S & M realm? The possibilities are seemingly endless & sooner or later you should find something that allows you to get relief & feel good about feeling good again. Or, feel bad & resolve it through the process that gets you to that point of uneasiness.