Relationship Boyfriend disappeared... will he come back?

[Brook]

Going through the same right now. I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. If you need to chat, fee...

Thank you. It’s really hard. Is your guy speaking to you at all? Do you think he’s coming back?

 

[RRT13]

Brook
Do yall live close? Will you ever run into him? Mine moved back home 5 hours away. We still talk barely everyday on snap chat. Nothing emotional, straight up friend zone. I'm trying again starting today to not message him and just ignore him. Guess I get confused because he still checks my snaps, and has always answered me back on sc. Plus him telling me he had nightmares all night the other night after I ignored him for 3 days makes it more confusing. Why would you come to me and open up to me about not sleeping, rough night and having nightmares like do you still care? I don't know what worse no contact or everyday still hearing from him who you still love but treats you like a friend.

 

[anon1234]

Thank you. It’s really hard. Is your guy speaking to you at all? Do you think he’s coming back?

I haven't seen mine for several weeks but we have mutual friends. I could not honestly tell you what is going on right now or if I'll see him again. I am hopeful but part of me is trying to remain realistic.

 

[RRT13]

Brook

Hate you are still going through this. We Must've both broken up at the same time. Veteran's day for us. I still cry to several times a day. And still wanna text him one minute, then next never again. I hope the space you give him helps him come back and hope yall can talk things out however it ends up. I actually have a date Sat night and I'm terrified to go. Feel like I'm a traitor almost, but i can't hold on to someone who friend zones me when he feels like it. Is it better to have no contact for still talk little bit everyday? Either way I know we're both hurting. I hope you get stronger every day and take care of yourself!

 

[Sweetpea76]

If you guys were seeing vets, Veterans Day is rough for them. Give them a little space and time.

 

[LuckiLee]

It's bad for my vet from Veterans day to the middle of January.

 

[LuckiLee]

My mistake. The middle of October to the middle of January.

 

[Brook]

Brook

Hate you are still going through this. We Must've both broken up at the same time. Veteran'...

The last time we spoke was a few days before Veterans Day and I figured that day was hard for him. We live about an hour away from each other and have no mutual friends or anything. He also doesn’t have any social media except for snap chat which we only had for each other. I won’t see him unless I go to his or his parents house or happen to be in his town and run into him, which is unlikely.

I don’t know which is worse Becky. It’s so painful to not hear anything from him for this long and to feel as if I never will again, but I’ve been in the situation you’re in before too, where a guy I cared about friend zoned me but I still loved him and I eventually had to cut contact with him. (That was the only other guy I’ve ever loved.)

 

[Brook]

I haven't seen mine for several weeks but we have mutual friends. I could not honestly tell you what i...

Same. I’m trying to move on with life as if he isn’t coming back but in the back of my mind (because I love him) I’m hoping that he will.