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Yeah see, that's exactly what I would've done in your situation AdamAnt - why? Because I think if someone does actually have an ability like that (and we'll never REALLY know will we? I don't know how she knew all these facts, one of which even I did not know so we can rule out mindreading huh) that they would certainly have been handed a degree of tact to go with it....... wouldn't they? (??)
If I went to someone (and I'll preface this with - Im not some psychic junkie) and they told me for example - 'your pet is about to die' I'd totally freak out. If they're so in tune with me then shouldn't they know that the best way to approach me would be to just generally talk about the grieving process in a way that will help me with any future events, rather than scare the living crap out of me with a statement like that.
This woman was not like that at all. She did not scare me. Not one little bit. AND - she didn't 'expose' my Mum. It wasn't like 'Mum you are so busted for that abortion'. I didn't care, I didn't judge. And I don't think Mum was ashamed either. I think she kinda thought 'wow, maybe, just maybe, my kid is actually still out there watching over me'. Perhaps if our reactions had been fearful or negative nothing would've been said.
Again, who knows....
If I went to someone (and I'll preface this with - Im not some psychic junkie) and they told me for example - 'your pet is about to die' I'd totally freak out. If they're so in tune with me then shouldn't they know that the best way to approach me would be to just generally talk about the grieving process in a way that will help me with any future events, rather than scare the living crap out of me with a statement like that.
This woman was not like that at all. She did not scare me. Not one little bit. AND - she didn't 'expose' my Mum. It wasn't like 'Mum you are so busted for that abortion'. I didn't care, I didn't judge. And I don't think Mum was ashamed either. I think she kinda thought 'wow, maybe, just maybe, my kid is actually still out there watching over me'. Perhaps if our reactions had been fearful or negative nothing would've been said.
Again, who knows....