Hi Wayne,
Do I have balls to put your PM on the forum, not an issue, as that to me sounds like authorisation from yourself to post your private message. No problem, will add it to the thread of your privacy breach.
It seems to me that Marilyn seems to have a problem, that problem when she came to me was that she claimed, "nobody is willing to help me" as she so put it. I wonder why? Maybe it has to do with her view of herself? Maybe it has to do with her beliefs? Maybe it has to do with you? Not real sure, but you obviously have little to no idea of what is required to actually help someone with PTSD. Obviously what you and Marilyn believe, must all be wrong, because what your doing is not working, and what I am trying to do is not being accepted, instead your both pushing against what I know works and opting for you own outcome, which you have done the entire time still with no avail. You both just don't get it... your rejecting what people are trying to do in order to help Marilyn, instead you believe you know what is best for her, and she believes she knows what is best for her also... and if this is the case, I'm not sure what either of you where ever doing here, considering this forum is a support group, one where people who want to actually help themselves come in order to try different and unique ways in which are working, have worked, and continue to work on every single person that actually wants to open up and release themselves for once in their life, not bottle themselves up and hide behind themselves or their partner accusing everyone else, blameing everyone else for their lack of self.
If you want to take legal action, please I highly encourage you. I do not pose as a doctor, not therapist, and in actual fact I clearly outline upon this forum in many posts and the disclaimer of legal liability every member accepts by merely being here, that I am not qualified in any way, shape or form, and that people are here to try things that therapists simply do not understand, or more likely, are held back from using because of their qualifications, hence they can be held accountable for their actions, where here, the members make their own actions, not me, not another member towards another member, it is an online community for support, simple as that. People have already tried taking such communities and their owners to court, all without success to date because of the very nature said communities are devised and the way in which the Internet makes information so readily available. Please, I encourage you to waste your money and try, because it won't get you anywhere at all.
Maybe, just maybe, you and Marilyn might wake the hell up to yourself one day and actually listen to those very people who try and help, instead of rejecting their efforts. You cannot, will not get through healing trauma without getting ill, without likely ending up in hospital, without wanting to commit suicide. Do you really even understand what your dealing with when it comes to PTSD? I don't believe you do, you only try, yet have no real idea or concept of what it takes. Maybe you should ask someone here that has been in and out of hospital, wanted to kill themselves and more because of the healing process.... hell, I went through it and mine was from qualified therapists and doctors who simply weren't afraid of being sued because they knew what was best for me at the end of the day, not themselves. America is full of pussies because your Country is so messed up you all want to sue one another for every little thing that doesn't go your way... a pathetic excuse for existence if you ask me. Maybe if you and Marilyn adopted a more proactive stance as many of your fellow country people here have, and healed, or are healing, maybe you and Marilyn might get some type of handle on what your dealing with, standup and face your truths and stop bullshitting me and others with your nonsense and get to work on fixing your own self issues once and for all.
I am a no bullshit person, live with it, or not... I don't ask any person to come here, you come by choice. As I have said to Marilyn before, come back and see me if she wants to really heal, and yet I am still waiting for that to occur, because instead you stand over her path in order to heal. If anything, your stopping her from healing with your actions.... actions you have no idea of the consequences. There is a huge difference protecting someone you love opposed to supporting them through a time of pain that must be endured in order to be delt with once and for all. The going gets tough, and you stand in her way and she allows you. What a great team you are, suited I believe, because you both want to wallow in self pity and misery instead of getting tough and fixing the damn problem.
Goodluck with your futures, and I hope one day you both see where you have gone wrong, and maybe, just maybe, you might step aside and let someone actually help Marilyn, pain included, and not step in the way of progress that must be made for her to get past her pain and suffering.
Anthony.
