I don't fear closeness in relationships with human. I fear losing them. I have lost one great supporter and lovely friend I had. Since that day I watch nightmares of friends I have in my life. I see nightmares that they are angry or mad at me. Later I reckon they are my fears.
I do get angry if someone enforces me to do something in relationships. it feels they are crossing and manipulating my boundaries. They are not trying to understand me. They are judging me. When someone judges me, I hate that moment. It reminds me my parents never believed in me and they judged me all the time. They emotionally blackmailed me.
I want to find solution for fear of losing people. Your thoughts, insights and sayings will be much appreciated.
This thread is not only for me, for everyone. I am sure there must be others who are having fearful thoughts in their for relationship concern in their life.
Anyone can discuss about having fears, how we can confront it and win over it eventually.
I do get angry if someone enforces me to do something in relationships. it feels they are crossing and manipulating my boundaries. They are not trying to understand me. They are judging me. When someone judges me, I hate that moment. It reminds me my parents never believed in me and they judged me all the time. They emotionally blackmailed me.
I want to find solution for fear of losing people. Your thoughts, insights and sayings will be much appreciated.
This thread is not only for me, for everyone. I am sure there must be others who are having fearful thoughts in their for relationship concern in their life.
Anyone can discuss about having fears, how we can confront it and win over it eventually.
