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I love this article!! My fiancé left me after his cup overflowed. We have been living together and inseparable for years. He has always been so sweet. He has apparently been hiding his unhappiness for months. By the time his cup overflowed it was too late. He wanted to break up. His anger is...

We still talk and hang out though... We still have an okay relationship friend wise. We purely broke up bc of his PTSD... Not bc of our issues. We were working in those with some success. @Stickler

He was actually in the military and he got hurt in Afghanistan. He wears a bracelet in memory of a friend that he had lost while over there. I have never asked about it. But after going through some old stuff he left on my computer I found a speech he had written for his speech class about his...

My fiancé left me on May 10th because of his Combat PTSD with TBI. I was pretty much in the dark about how he was feeling until the day he left me. Please read and tell me what you think. It's really me venting, but maybe someone can relate? In some ways I feel blessed because he talks to me...

@Futuremrs Will do... Sometime tomorrow probably. :)

@Futuremrs I was in the same situation... and still am in a way. My fiancé with Combat PTSD recently left me. Feel free to message me if you wanna talk. We can compare notes...

Also I left my phone at home on purpose last week once to see if he would notice when I didn't text him back. Ooo he noticed. And blew up my phone while he was at it. It makes me feel good, and slightly makes me think that he is afraid to lose me. But I'm still ooo sooo very confused day to...

@Becksknox My (ex) fiancé has Combat PTSD with TBI. We broke up a little over a month ago. I'm kind of in the same position as you. When he first broke up he wanted space, and said we will never get back together. Now we talk daily (except for a few days a week maybe). He says lets see how...

Okay, so I am highly aware that ppl with PTSD have good and bad days/weeks/months. I also know that everyone is different. With that being said... I need to vent. I would love thoughts and advice, but please don't think I'm ignorant to the roller coaster ride that I am on. My fiancé (ex I...

@Sweetpea76 Yeah... We have talked about setting up some days to hangout (When work dies down in a couple weeks), we talk all day sometimes sending funny pictures and stuff, he is starting to show concern for my safety again, and the other day when we hanged out he asked for a hug (which it...

He used to attach me to his triggers... but has since said that I no longer trigger anything.

I'm so confused as to why he wants to have sex with me. I know he could have possibly turned his emotions off due to his mental state, but the attraction is so real. And he isn't isolating me like one would think since he ended our engagement. Everyday is different. I have wondered more than...

My Fiancé left me about a month ago due to his Combat PTSD with TBI. We lived together for 3 years, but no longer. The 2 weeks before we broke up we didn't have sex. He seemed so uninterested. Since we have broken up we have had sex, sexted, and talked about future things we want to try in the...

I pray that he has a clear mind before he decides to move... No matter how long that takes.

@Sighs He has told me that it's not me. I think he tried to fix himself without telling me for a long time with no avail because he wasn't getting the help he needed. Then it was too much... I was starting to notice and get worried. His anger scared him, and he didn't want to put me through...

@itsKismet Keeping in mind that everyone is different... Is it possible that he will ever want to be with me again? I am sticking around as a huge support. Or will he always see me as a stressor?

@Lucycat It's only been a month... I'm not living life thinking everything is going to be okay or that he will come running back. I'm just confused. Do I have hope... Definitely! When he himself says that he we don't know what the future holds but there is a chance... maybe there is. Maybe...

Okay... So when my fiancé first broke up with my due to his Combat PTSD with TBI it was abrupt. It was something I never thought would happen. I was building a life with him, and now our future is so uncertain. Other than his therapist (which I pray he really is seeing), a support group, and 1...

P.S. He says he is going to therapy. At this point I have to believe him. I dI'd ask how it was going yesterday... and although he didn't want to talk about it he did not ignore my question or concern.

This is so long... Please read. Thank you!!! Hey guys... I have probably asked these same questions over and over on here, but I just need more. I'm going backward, and I feel horrible. My fiancé broke up with me almost a month ago due to his Combat PTSD with TBI. We were inseparable for...

@FridayJones Thank you! I love you just listed it all out for me. I'm going to screen shot it and save it to my phone so I can read when I start feeling lost. Now why does he still talk to me almost daily if he left me and acts like he doesn't want to talk to me sometimes. He initiates most...

So my now ex fiancé (not my choice) used to be so loving. He literally treated me like a princess. We were inseparable for years. We keep in touch now that he is dealing with the PTSD. He left me because he couldn't handle the relationship and the PTSD. I have been just trying to give him space...

@joeylittle Thank you... I feel better now I have talked to someone. Today has just been and emotional day for me.

@joeylittle Well... We have had a conversation about just letting the future take place and lets see what happens. So idk if I need to say anything again. Maybe waiting until we hang out more or until he is further in his healing process is a better idea? I love the "your brave and I'm proud...

Okay, so I have been separated from my (ex) fiancé for a few weeks now. There have been ups and downs. We have had great talks, some emotional times, and and a few small arguments. For the first couple weeks I asked questions that I wanted the answers to... but then realized I was making things...