After All She Is Not Your Abuser...

[onebravegirl]

I'm still behind you Nicki, I think you have done the best thing you could have given your circumstances. It has taken a great deal of courage to do the hard but healthy thing.:Hug_emoticon:

 

[Nicky31]

Hi Say and everyone else

So she tried calling today. I text her and told her why I could no longer have contact with her. Her response didn't even acknowledge the issues or feelings I had raised. I think that enforces the belief I had before making the decision.

I told her that how I was now held little consequnce for her. I've heard nothing back and doubt I ever will. She can choose to live in a messed up, self absorbed, selfish and abusive home, but I've opted out. Aged 28 she should be able to deal with that now. I'm done with wasting my time, love, energy on fretting about her.

 

[TLight]

Hard decision. But sometimes we HAVE to do what is best for our mental health.

Someday perhaps things will change. You will mourn, I'm sure..............

 

[Deleted member 541]

Toxic people/relationships/friendships and family, IMO, need to be left behind. As hard and as harsh as that sounds, if we are to move forward in our healing, then we simple can not afford to have toxic people dragging us down, using up our energy, or ****ing with our heads.......

We need every ounce of energy that we have to face our shit, and to get through another day. We need to surround ourselves with healthy people and healthy behaviors if we stand the chance at getting better.....